Archive for October, 2006

30 is the New 20 for Modern Dating and Singles

Sunday, October 29th, 2006
Date Married
Mr Online Dating asked:

Roughly ten or twenty years ago, if we hadn’t started a family and were not married by our late twenties or early thirties it was considered out of the ordinary. Parents would start to wonder whether their children had missed the boat and had all but lost the opportunity to settle down and have a family.

 

 

Twenty years ago, the most common age to marry was  22. The average age nowadays is 29.  Factors such as a rising cost of living, more social options and a  general acceptance from society to remain available and single for longer has created the option for today’s singles to stay single. In recent times 30 something’s are adopting the same trends as 20 something’s.

 

 

Much of the 30 + age group is remaining at home with their folks. 10 years ago this would have stirred gossip among ones peers and would have been considered alittle odd. In the old days you were virtually booted out of home immediately after leaving school. Today’s singles are pursuing their uni degrees and not leaving home to sure up their financial security before moving out. Additional after school studies are seeing more and more singles in their late 20s – early 30s staying under the wing of their parents.

 

 

This recent pattern has also effected the romance and *** lives of today’s singles in that they are still dating as often however they are looking at ways to meet new people that fit in with their new and increasingly common living arrangements. Singles travel is becoming more and more popular as is the internet and online dating services. Social networking has taken this next generation by storm and many see this as their only social outlet. The internet and online dating sites offer privacy that living at home with our Mum and Dad doesn’t

 

 

Many singles are delaying committing to financial decisions and are pursuing their education which can lead to a small income throughout their study years. A small income can sometimes restrict our social potential. The internet and online dating offers cheap dating options and some online dating sites offer free dating for their members. The chance for internet users to expand their social options online with little or even no expense sees many aged in their late 20s or early 30s with small incomes taking up this option.

 

A high number of 30 year olds believe that life starts in their 30s. We have published some interesting comments by some 30 + year olds which can give some of us food for thought.

 

“I hit the big 3 0 last week. If you’ve just made it to the big 3 0 recently then I’m sure you can relate. I’ve heard recently and often that 30 is the new 20, but I’m sure I didn’t worry when I turned 20, so why should turning 30 change the way I think? It is my opinion that age is all in your head. Actually, its just an arbitrary time. We are actually measuring the number of times we rotate around the sun… and that’s the bottom line.  I am mostly happy of what I’ve done with my 30 years here on earth. I always try to lead a satisfying life, I try and stay in good health and I adore my partner and daughter… what else matters? See you again in 2009! (when I’ll turn 30 once again) “

 

There wont be too many who don’t agree that life in today’s day and age is harder than say 30 – 40 years ago. There are far more daily pressures. There is much to be said about the simple life and being content with the free things our earth offers.

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Cigars: Giving Cigars as a Gift

Friday, October 27th, 2006
Quality Cigars
Nicholas Tan asked:

Is there a cigar aficionado on your gift list? Wondering how to choose a decent cigar for a friend or loved one? Even if you know nothing about cigars or choosing a good cigar, just learning a few basics can help you sniff out (sometimes literally) a good cigar to give to a friend.

Fortunately, cigars have now entered the mainstream. Once the symbol of the rich and powerful, it’s easier than ever for just about anyone to purchase a good cigar. Of course, you probably won’t be able to buy your friend a box of top-tier Cuban cigars, but you can definitely buy them a good quality cigar that will put a smile on their face.

First, visit your local tobacconist or specialty smoke shop for the best quality and widest selection. Avoid ‘drugstore’ cigars. Although they may be inexpensive and convenient to purchase, drugstore cigars are usually filled with preservatives and generally of poorer quality. They may contain, at minimum, saltpeter, paper, glycerin, and other preservatives and irritants. You should make sure that the cigars you purchase are made of 100% tobacco. If you have any questions regarding the cigars ingredients, ask the salesperson. An experienced and knowledgeable sales clerk will be able to tell you extensive information about the ingredients.

Your local tobacco shop is a good place to shop because you will generally be allowed to smell and touch the cigars. Squeeze the cigar gently. A good quality cigar will give a little when squeezed. The cigar should be firm, with no excessively soft or hard spots. Never buy a lumpy cigar. Look at the wrapper. If you notice any drying or discoloration, best not to buy it. Ideally, the wrapper should be tight and smooth. Inspect the color of the tobacco to make sure it is even. Do this by inspecting the end of the cigar. Some color variation is normal, but if the color changes abruptly, chances are the cigar was not rolled properly. A cigar that is not rolled properly may result in an uneven burning and unpleasant odors.

If you’re not sure how much your friend smokes, choose a longer cigar. Longer cigars tend to have a ‘cooler’ taste—an excellent choice for beginners. If you know your friend is an experienced and regular smoker, choose a cigar that is greater in diameter. These cigars tend to have a richer flavor that experienced smokers will appreciate.

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New Learning Styles

Friday, October 27th, 2006
E Learning
Tony Wagner asked:

The Desire to multitask and be constantly Connected to the net and to friends as well as the hunger for immediate results influence how young people today interact with the world — whether in school or at work or at home or while traveling — and must be taken into account by both educators and employers. However, the ways in which young people are different today as learners may be the most fundamental change we need to understand as we consider hot to close the global achievement gap. The use of the internet and other digital technology has transformed both what young people learn today and how they learn.

Learning Through Multimedia and Connection to Others

Young adults who’ve grown up on the net are habituated to multimedia learning experiences, as opposed to merely interacting with text. According to the Oblingers, “Researchers report Net Gen students will refuse to read large amounts of text, whether it involves a long reading assignment or lengthy instructions. In a study that altered instructions from a text-based step-by-step approach to one that used a graphic layout, refusals to do the assignment dropped and post-test scores increased.” My interviews with students, as well as with their high school and college teachers, confirm that students are increasingly impatient with the lecture style of learning and the reliance on textbooks for information and crave more class discussions.

The Net Generation much prefers doing research on the Internet rather than in stacks of library books — in part, because of the very different experience it offers. “Prose is supplemented by song. Photographs are accompanied by video. Issues are even turned into online polls and discussions. For the Net Gen, nearly every part of life is presented in multimedia format,” writes Carie Windham. “To keep our attention in the classroom, a similar approach is needed. Faculty must toss aside the dying notion that a lecture and subsequent reading assignment are enough to teach the lesson. Instead, the Net Generation responds to a variety of media, such as television, audio, animation, and text.”

Once they’re on the Internet looking for information, Net Gen students develop a vital proficiency in what John Seely Brown calls “information navigation.” According to Brown, “The real literacy of tomorrow entails the ability to be your own personal reference librarian-to know how to navigate through confusing, complex information spaces and feel comfortable doing so. ‘Navigation’ may well be the main form of literacy for the 21st century.”  

And as UCLAs Jason Frand observes, today’s college students want to be connected to others, as well as to different kinds of information sources, while they learn. “Students with an information-age mindset expect education to emphasize the learning process more than a canon of knowledge. They want to be part of learning communities, with hubs and spokes of learners, rejecting the broadcast paradigm of television (or the note-taker in the lecture hall.)””

Learning as Discovery

The experience of learning or conducting research on the web is radically different from that of classroom learning or library research. As we’re all now aware, on the Internet you type a search string, the results of which show you hundreds or thousands of potential information sources-not just text but also video, audio, and graphics. You click on links that, in turn, have other links you can follow. You may find the name of a person or book or issue that you want to learn more about, and so you conduct a new search, which leads you to a new treasure trove of information and images, with countless additional links. It is an active, dynamic, nonlinear, discovery-based process-more like traveling along a spider web than moving in a straight line from point A to point B. As John Seely Brown writes: “Most of us experienced forma learning in an authority-based, lecture-oriented school. Now, with incredible amounts of information available through the web, we find a ‘new’ kind of learning assuming pre-eminence — learning that’s discovery based. We are constantly discovering new things as we browse through the emergent digital ‘libraries.’ Indeed, web surfing fuses learning and entertainment, creating ‘infotainment.” In confirming Brown’s observation, one young woman in the focus group I mentioned earlier confessed that she Googles topics for fun: “There’s not a day that goes by that I don’t Google something — anything. It’s not even just when I have to Google something for school. I Google everything. If I’m bored, I’ll Google something about my life.”

John Beck and Mitchell Wade have studied the “gamers” — as the young people who play videogames are called. In their book The Kids Are Alright, they report that gamers (who, according to their research, represent 92 percent of the teenage population), “learn differently. Their game experience . . . emphasizes independent problem solving and the rapid acquisition of technical skills, as opposed to sustained attention to the subtleties of Shakespeare or calculus. James Paul Gee has also studied gamers, and in What Video Games Have to Teach Us About Learning and Literacy, he writes that “video games make players think like scientists. Game play is built on a cycle of ‘hypothesize, probe the world, get a reaction, reflect on the results, reprobe to get better results,’ a cycle typical of experimental science.

When PJ Blankenhorn directed the Boston Center for Adult Education, she was discussing proposals for new courses with a young staff member. “A few people have asked for a class on how to use PDAS,” PJ said. “What do you think?” The staff person, a young woman in her 20s, stared at my wife in astonishment, finally saying, “Why would anyone need to take a course to learn that?”

John Seely Brown’s observations help us to make sense of this interaction. “My generation tends not to want to try things unless or until we already know how to use them,” he writes. “If we don’t know how to use some appliance or software, our instinct is to reach for a manual or take a course or call up an expert. Believe me, hand a manual or suggest a course to 15-year-olds and they think you’re a dinosaur. They want to turn the thing on, get in there, muck around, and see what works. Today’s kids get on the Web and link, lurk, and watch how other people are doing things, then try it for themselves. 

Learning by Creating

New developments on the web are giving young people a set of experiences that create a hunger for more than merely learning through discovery. Web 2.0 — as it is often called to differentiate web use today from early Internet use, which was primarily as a source of information — provides an extraordinary number of opportunities to exercise one’s passion to create. Today, anyone who has even a rudimentary understanding of how the Internet works can fashion new web content that will be seen by all users.

Whether it’s creating your own web page on MySpace or Facebook or uploading your band’s music or sharing your photo album or posting a video you just shot with your cell phone on YouTube or contributing to a Wikipedia entry or writing a blog about what you think or what you’ve experienced or reviewing a movie, an album, a product, a service, or a restaurant, web 2.0 is a vast and ever-expanding palate for personal creativity and self-expression — especially for young people growing up today. According to Rosen@ research, the most common activity of MySpace users involves posting new photographs and videos on their personal web pages. An astonishing 88 percent of MySpace users have added photo or video content to their pages.

Cautions

None of what I have described above is necessarily meant to suggest that these developments in how young people today interact with the world and learn are all positive. For every upside, there is an equally important caution or concern. Let’s review some of the concerns that have been raised regarding the trends noted above:

Multitasking and Constantly Connected.

While multi-tasking may be a useful skill and a pleasant diversion while performing routine tasks, the practice appears to come at a cost. According to Russell Poldrack, an associate professor of psychology at the University of California at Los Angeles, who co-authored a study that examined multitasking and brain activity: “Multitaskers may not be building the same knowledge that they would be if they were focusing. While multitasking makes them [college students] feel like they are being more efficient, research suggests that there’s very little you can do that involves multitasking that you can be as good at when you’re not multitasking.” Linda Stone agrees. “Like so many things, in small doses, continuous partial attention can be a very functional behavior. However, in large doses, it contributes to a stressful lifestyle, to operating in crisis management mode, and to a compromised ability to reflect, to make decisions, and to think creatively. In a 24/7, always-on world, continuous partial attention used as our dominant attention mode contributes to a feeling of overwhelm, over-stimulation and to a sense of being unfulfilled. We are so accessible, we’re inaccessible. “  Indeed, young people’s connectedness through sites like MySpace and Facebook can sometimes be used in ways that are deeply hurtful. Cyberbullying has become a growing concern for school administrators. Adult cyberpredators are another concern. As I talked to young people who have collected hundreds of new friends electronically through Facebook or MySpace, I wondered to what extent they differentiate between an electronic friend, whom they have never met and who may pass out of their lives in a nanosecond, and an in-person friend, with whom one builds trust and shares experiences over time.

Instant Gratification and the Speed of Light.

You’ll recall the young man I highlighted earlier in this chapter who observed that use of fast technologies has “made us less patient, more demanding. We don’t want to have to wait for anything.” Later during the same focus-group session, several students expressed concerns about how over-reliance on cell phones and instant messaging may be eroding social skills. “People don’t talk as much face-to-face,” one young woman said. Another added: “You know, when you go to someone’s house for dinner with their family, you have to know how to talk to them, to interact. I worry that we may be losing our ability to relate to people who are different than we are.”

Learning Through Multimedia and Connection to Others.

The Oblingers, quoted earlier in this chapter, have noted young people’s impatience with text-based learning. Tracy Mitrano, who works in the Office of Information Technologies at Cornell University, worries about the ways in which “this generation has been entertained to death.” And Susan Metros, who holds a similar position at the University of Southern California and is also a professor in visual communication, told me that college students today “are media-stimulated, but not necessarily media-literate.” These researchers are concerned that young people may be avoiding book learning because they’ve been raised on multimedia that is more entertaining. Metros went on to point out that being a consumer of multimedia doesn’t necessarily mean that one has developed the ability to really understand the media and think critically about what one is experiencing. Young peoples’ preference for learning with peers may also become problematic when they need to work on something alone — such as a research paper-for long periods of time in order to get the best result.

Learning as Discovery.

This style of learning is much more engaging than other ways of learning, and there is a great deal of research showing that it leads to a deeper understanding of basic concepts in math and science when compared to simple rote memorization. However, not everything can be learned through discovery. We don’t “discover” the times tables, for example. We have to memorize them. And while we will better understand the concept of an ecosystem through observation and experimentation, we must first know something about basic processes such as photosynthesis. Similarly, some basic knowledge in geography and history, essential for informed citizenship, can be gained only through memorization. Finally, the desire to constantly “do” and interact often comes at the expense of contemplation and reflection — essential aspects of both learning and growth.

Learning by Creating.

Quality is also a question in these times, when anyone can throw anything up on the Internet. Flooded with an ever-expanding torrent of “creative” work coming at them from thousands of websites, how do young people learn to discern the difference between impulsive forms of self-expression versus works of art that are the product of training and discipline? This is an aspect of what Metros meant by being “media-literate.” And Carie Windham worries about the impact of all of the creative shortcuts young people take when they IM each other. “I’ve seen some of my brother’s messages to his friends, and I have absolutely no clue what he’s writing — which is maybe the point anyway. But he doesn’t know how to spell. When I try to tell him that’s not the way the word is spelled, he just says, ‘Well, it is in IM.’ I was an English major, and I worry that he’ll never know how to use the language correctly.”

The above is an excerpt from the book The Global Achievement Gap; Why Even Our Best Schools Don’t Teach The New Survival Skills Our Children Need — And What We Can Do About It

by Tony Wagner

Published by Basic Books; August 2008;$26.95US/$28.95CAN; 978-0-465-00229-0

Copyright © 2008 Tony Wagner

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Thursday, October 26th, 2006
car
Car Guru asked:

Q. Why take a ‘driving holiday’?

A. A drive holiday gives you the freedom and flexibility to decide on where you travel and what you see and do. You are in charge of how much time you wish to spend at a particular attraction. You have the independence to move around as much or as little as you like. A drive holiday allows you to discover so much more as a car will allow you to drive through the little villages in out of the way places.

Q. How is car rental charged?

A. Car rental is based on 24 hour periods and charged accordingly. If you pick up a car at 9am on Thursday and return at 9am the following day, this is one 24 hour period and therefore a one day booking.

Q. Is it cheaper to pre-book my car rental or should I book when I arrive?

A. Pre-booking will save you money almost every time! With a wholesaler like DriveAway Holidays, you receive the benefit of our purchasing power. Our prices with the major car rental suppliers are considerably lower than walking in off the street in a foreign country to rent a car. In addition you are pre-paying in Australian dollars so the risk of fluctuations in the currency are reduced.

Q. How does a prepaid rental work?

A. The booking is made in advance, paid for and a voucher is issued. The voucher is then used as payment when you go to pick up the car from the supplier.

Q. What additional extras will I have to pay?

A.  It depends on what the rental covers. DriveAway Holidays in most cases include all mandatory charges, like road taxes or airport surcharges. Many optional charges are applicable such as young or additional drivers, Insurance Excess Reduction or extra equipment like child seats. Be sure to check out rate inclusions – first when you are choosing your vehicle online and when you have made your booking (the inclusions will be on your voucher)

Q. What happens when I pick up the car?

A. Present the rental voucher, a valid drivers license and a credit card for a security deposit. Any additional charges will be explained as well as the conditions of the rental. A signature will be required to accept or decline additional charges and to acknowledge that the rental conditions are understood.

Q. What does the supplier do with the renters credit card?

A. It varies depending on the supplier – they may freeze a specific amount as a deposit, an imprint may be taken as a deposit or an amount may be charged to cover the security deposit and then refunded on the return of the vehicle. In some instances the bond can be paid in cash – check with the supplier/broker when you book.

Q. Will there be fuel in the vehicle?

A. Yes, there should be enough to get you on your way. Different companies have different policies regarding fuel – most will supply a full tank and require the car to be returned with a full tank of fuel, otherwise the renter is charged the difference. Some companies provide minimum fuel and is to returned as the renter wishes.

Q. What is a Pre-Paid Fuel Option?

A. Most car rental companies provide a full tank of fuel and will charge you for re-fuelling the vehicle if it is not returned with a full tank. By accepting a Pre-paid fuel option you are agreeing to pay a pre-determined price for fuel regardless of whether you return the vehicle with a full, partially full or empty tank. This means you won’t need to search for a petrol station before you return the car, but there is no refund for any fuel remaining in the tank.

Q. Should I check out the condition of the rental car before driving away?

A. Yes, it is a good idea to check the vehicle before you leave the depot. Any damage or unusual dents/scratches should be noted on the contract before leaving.

Look out for our 2nd part of car rental FAQs!

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Create An Illusion With Glow In The Dark Contact Lens

Thursday, October 19th, 2006
Contact Lens
Jim Kesel asked:

Glow in the dark contact lens is also now available in the market. They are an innovation when it comes to special effect contact lens.

The usual type of contact lens just either help enhance the eye’s natural color or bring it out with the use of other eye colors. Some can also create illusions with the use of extraordinary colors such as yellow and red. Some go as far as placing shapes on contact lenses to create the illusion of a magical pupil or something otherworldly. However, glow in the dark contact lens put all those innovation into a whole new level.

The glow in the dark contact lens is generally used for theatrical purposes. Those who wanted to create a spookier costume presentation for Halloween would also benefit a lot from using glow in the dark contact lens. Once worn, it definitely calls for attention and therefore produces a lot of audience impact.

These contact lenses can be further customized to illuminate different images in the lens itself to make them more unique. It can also be built within shapes to create a more awesome look. No matter how innovating the designs or shapes maybe, they can still amaze those people who have tried them on. The only thing the wearer should keep in mind is that it must be relative dark in order to see the full effects to the glowing lens.

So what’s the trick behind that glow in the dark look? This type of contact lens makes use of luminescent material which is safely placed on its surface. However, in choosing a lens with specifications like this, it is important to look at its accreditation. It is highly advisable to use only those which colors are approved by the FDA. Make sure your eye doctor gives his or her approval before trying on an unknown brand of specialty contact lenses.

In addition, this type of lens should also be purchased with proper prescription. It is important to consult a licensed optometrist first before availing one. As soon as you get an approval to wear a theatrical contact lens, the next important thing to do is find a reliable contact lens seller. This is important so that the quality of lens is ensured. Also, it’s very appropriate to buy only those which have proven their name over the years since there’s additional material being placed on this lens’ surface which is not a simple process.

Some brands of glowing contact lenses are not recommended to be worn while driving at night. Apparently the glare of oncoming vehicle headlights have cause some people to have vision problems. Again talk to your eye doctor if you have any questions as any possible limitations that may be involved with wearing theatrical contact lenses.

It is strongly recommended that this type of contact lens should be used by only one wearer. This is not intended for borrowing because that would be very unhygienic and potentially dangerous to the eyes. Your Glow in the dark contact lens should also be taken cared of and cleaned just like any normal contact lenses. Failure to do so may lead to serious consequences.

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Black Single Men at Black Dating Websites

Tuesday, October 17th, 2006
Date Married
Dating Fish asked:

tronic world really helps us a lot. Many black single men found their dream mates at black dating websites. There are many black dating services out there to help black singles to find on line dates. So, seeking black single men or women at black singles dating sites is the best way these days. There are free black dating services and pay ones so online singles can select which one they need to register to. Most of black online agencies provide free registration, then charge members a fee to contact with members. There are some free black singles services that offer 100% free to their members because they really want to help single guys with black ladies. We have seen many black dating services online which help men to meet with black girls and get married through a black agency or by themselves. Many black girls found their men through these black dating sites. These free dating sites usually have some ads on the web site to pay for the host and domain. Black dating services are means for single men to get married with black women effectively. Many black women register their profile with beautiful photos so that singles can contact them. Black women are very beautiful and hard workers, as well as educated. The most important factor that black girls dating black single men is they look for the honesty from the men. They want the respects from these single men so they look for love at these black singles dating sites. Statistics in recent years show that online black dating services generate thousand of marriages a year. There are some black scams who take this advantage as a means to scam the money from others. So, paying attention to the persons you deal with and make careful decision when approaching to the marriage. Free black dating services just provide free dating services for members and you will be on your way after you get the other information, such as email address. Thanks to this modern electronic world, we can meet each other online just as a matter of minutes, through instant messenger or chat rooms or web cams. The matter is that you need to be careful when dealing with specific members. Care is always the first policy that we all need to pay attention to. Not every profile on these black dating web sites are good profiles. Nobody guarantee this. Website owners do not have time to review each profile that is posted on their on line dating services. Also, some black females from other countries who just want to get married with men to come to that country. They will get divorced right after they get green card. So, you must be careful to learn from your black female before making decision to bring her to America.  What are you waiting for? The question is answered. Seeking black single men or women from black dating websites is easy and simple. You should take action now by joining these free dating service to meet that special dream mate.

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